Introducing children to music
A Parent's Guide to Music Lessons
By: Catherine Schmidt-Jones
Summary: Some suggestions for parents who are wondering when and how to introduce their children to music.
When Should Children Start Music Lessons?
Introducing children to music, like introducing them to reading, should not wait for formal classes to start. Just as you read to your very young children, you should sing to them (whether you consider yourself a decent singer or not), dance with them, teach them singing games like "Ring Around the Rosy", and share with them the music that you like. Exposing them to classical music, using the many videos, books, and tapes available, can't hurt, either, but at a very young age they will be most engaged by what engages you. In some communities, there are parent/child group classes that introduce children to the basic concepts of music. To find out what's available in your area, check with any group that organizes extra-curricular activities for young children. This may be your local park district, YMCA, public library, music academy, community college, or local university. The emphasis at a very young age should be on how fun music is.
The ideal time to start formal music training can be anywhere from age two to age twelve, depending on what you want.
Note: Motivated teenagers - i.e. teenagers who tell you that they really want to learn to play an instrument - are, of course, also very good candidates for beginning music lessons. But, the teenage years being what they are, this is usually not a good time for you to start insisting on lessons and practice.
If you want your child to begin before about age 6, she will probably have to start on the Suzuki method on piano, violin, viola, or cello. Very young children are not developmentally ready to learn to read music, for the same reason that they are not yet ready to learn to read books. The Suzuki method is specifically designed to teach young children by focussing on ear training and on the proper physical techniques for playing the instrument. Learning to read music is delayed until the student is ready for it. Of course, older students can benefit from the Suzuki approach, also. If your child has vision problems or simply responds better to audial and physical approaches to learning than he does to visual teaching methods, Suzuki may be best. Between the ages of six and ten, your child can start piano, violin, viola, cello, recorder, or guitar with just about any teaching method. There are plenty of piano methods for children who still have small hands, and the stringed instruments (including guitar) can be found in small sizes for children. If a child this age really wants to play a wind instrument, soprano recorder is the best choice.
Many instruments do not come in child sizes and are physically too much for a small child to handle. At about the age of ten, most children become big enough to begin playing most instruments. If you have been waiting to start your child on trombone, flute, or harp, for example, now is a good time to start. Most school band and string programs begin at about this age. (If you or your child is very determined on a particular instrument, you may want to begin lessons before school instruction begins, in order to ensure that she is not assigned a different instrument.)
Remember, it's never too late to start music lessons. If you are an adult and wished you had had piano lessons as a child, find yourself a piano teacher! If your high school sophomore wishes he could be in the band, have him talk to the band director. Most will be happy to suggest an instrument (probably one that the band does not have enough of) and a teacher. A few months worth of lessons and practice should have a sixteen-year-old playing at a level that is acceptable in most high school bands.
Does My Child Have Enough Talent for This?
The short answer to this question is "yes". All children can benefit from music instruction, and many of the children who enjoy it the most are not the ones who have enough talent to be the next Itzhak Perlman. Much research suggests that students who receive music instruction do better in their other classes, and this effect may show up strongest in math class.
If you still don't want to bother with music lessons unless your child shows some natural aptitude, consider the following questions:
When your preschooler sings alone, is the tune accurate?
When he sings with others, does he join in on the same key as everyone else, rather than singing the tune higher or lower?
Does her play-time include singing and dancing even when an adult doesn't suggest it?
Does he learn a song more quickly than the other children in his class? Does he still remember many songs a long time after learning them?
What Instrument is Right for My Child?
There are so many instruments to choose from, and so many reasons to choose one or the other. Here are some things to consider:
Age - As mentioned above, very young children will probably have to start on piano, violin, viola, or cello.
Size - A small child may have to wait until he is bigger to take up tuba or string bass. Also, consider the size of the instrument from a practical viewpoint. Is she going to have to carry that baritone sax case to and from school along with a big bookbag? Are you going to be able to get the harp to wherever she needs to play it? Does your home have room for a piano?
Personality - A child who is unhappy practicing piano by himself every day may love the cameraderie of band rehearsals.
Instrumental preferences - Many children do not have strong feelings about one instrument or another, but if your child insists she wants to learn guitar, it may be better to let her take guitar than to insist that she take up an orchestral instrument. A child who really wants to play a particular instrument is much more motivated to practice. If your child doesn't know what he wants to play, but you think it might make a big difference, try to find events (like the local orchestra's "young person's concert" or "instrument petting zoo time") where he can watch various instruments being played and hear the sounds they make.
Musical preferences - If your child loves jazz, trumpet may be a better choice for her than flute. If he strongly resists being exposed to classical music, consider lessons in guitar, fiddle, or dulcimer. If your family is already involved in the local Renaissance festival, recorder may be a good place to start.
Your expectations and goals - You and your child should make this decision together. Be honest with yourself, and forthright with your child, about what you want and expect. Is it very important to you that she learn classical music? Are you hoping the family can play string quartets together eventually? Can you not stand the sound of bagpipes? If you find yourself disagreeing strongly with your child, explain your reasons clearly and try to come up with a compromise if you can. For example, agree on a drum set in two years if he can learn piano well enough to convince you that he will be able to play the drums musically and not just make noise on them. (This is actually a very practical solution; since familiarity with a keyboard will help him play melody percussion.)
Local availability and opportunity - Your community may or may not have an accordian teacher, steel drum ensemble, or Russian or Peruvian folk music club; but if it does, what a great opportunity! Or there may be more opportunities locally for a young string player, or your community may have a thriving band, jazz, or folk tradition. If the high school band program is bristling with clarinets and short on horns and the youth orchestra has several star violin players but a weak viola section, your child may have a better chance to make the top band or the youth orchestra if she takes up horn or viola.
Cost - A tight budget does not mean your child can't take up an instrument, but it may limit your choices. If cost is an issue, look through the want ads for a used instrument that is in your budget (but make sure to have a teacher or other knowledgable person check it out before you buy it), or check with family and friends to see if you can borrow an instrument that is not being used much. Even new, some instruments (trumpet and clarinet, for example) cost much less than others. Also, consider what instrument your child could get free or low-cost instruction in. For example, is there a band or strings program at your public school? Most of these programs include a year of "beginners" instruction. Probably all you'll need to pay for are the instrument and an instruction book. If even that is a burden, talk to the band or strings director at the school; the school may have instruments available to borrow or rent for a very low fee. Some music clubs, groups, or conservatories may also offer low-cost group lessons, or an amateur who is, say, dedicated to preserving a local folk tradition may be willing to offer low-cost lessons to someone who is really interested.
Piano - Probably more students take piano than any other instrument. There are a couple of reasons for this. A beginner can get a good tone and play in tune easily. (But be advised, it takes just as much work to become very accomplished on the piano as it does on French horn or oboe.) Piano is also a wonderful instrument to use to begin learning about music, because the basic theory and practice of music are so easy to see on a keyboard. The student can see very clearly that scales follow certain predictable patterns and that intervals have a certain size. They become familiar with chords and harmonic structure in a way that is not as easily available on other instruments. If you think the theory behind the music may fascinate your child, or if you have no idea what instrument to start on (your child can always switch instruments later as she learns more about it), or if you want your child to have a few years of basic music instruction before he takes up the saxophone (some band directors reserve the most popular instruments for students who have already had some piano instruction), consider the piano.
For an introduction to just a few of the other instruments available, please see Classifying Musical Instruments, Orchestral Instruments, Flutes, The Oboe and its Relatives, Clarinets,Bassoons, Saxophones, Trumpets and Cornets, The French Horn, Baritones and Euphoniums, Trombones, and Tubas.
Finding a Teacher
If you can, get teacher recommendations from others with children who are taking music lessons. Find out what their teachers charge, how long and how often lessons are, and why they are happy with them. One parent may be happy with the teacher who is demanding and produces award-winning players; another may be happy with the low-key, unintimidating teacher who makes lessons and practice-time fun. What do you want? What will your child respond to?
If you can't get recommendations from friends, the local store that sells musical instruments often will keep a list of area teachers; many even offer lessons through the store. You can also try contacting the music director at the local high school or the music department at the local college. They may know some music teachers in the area. Also, college students, and even some older high school students, may offer lessons. These should cost quite a bit less than lessons from a professional, but they will also usually not be as high quality. Try to get specific recommendations from a director or professor who has worked with the student if you take this route.
When interviewing a prospective teacher, find out the practical stuff: cost, length of lessons, availability of lesson time slots, her education and experience, and so on. But also ask some questions that will help you decide if the teacher's philosophy and approach are right for your child. What method does he use, and why? What styles and types of music will your child be learning? What are the teacher's expectations concerning how much time your child will practice each week and how fast she will progress? There are no right or wrong answers to these questions; what you are looking for is someone whose approach and expectations make sense to you and to your child.
If your child doesn't seem to be working well with the teacher, don't be afraid to share your concerns. Be as specific as possible concerning what doesn't seem to be working, and ask what can be done about it. The problem may be solveable using a different method book, music that is more appealing to your child, or more guidance from you during practice time. Be sure you allow a reasonable amount of time to work through bumpy spots and allow for plateaus and personality phases that your child may be going through. In general, switching treachers will slow your child's progress. But if your child seems to actively and specifically dislike the teacher, doesn't seem to understand what or how to practice, feels unchallenged, or fears or dreads going to lessons, a different teacher may suit his needs or personality better. Don't be afraid to try a different teacher if the first one you choose is really not working out.
Finding an Instrument
This section comes after "finding a teacher" because it is often a good idea to get in touch with your child's prospective teacher before you get an instrument. The teacher may have definite ideas about what is an acceptable student instrument, will probably know the best sources of reasonable quality/reasonable price instruments, may have brand recommendations, and in any case should be able to help you decide whether to purchase a particular instrument. This includes band directors and other group instructors. If money is an issue, please don't hesitate to let the instructor know. The school may be able to let you borrow or rent an instrument at a low cost, or the instructor may be able to help you locate a low-price used instrument.
If your teacher does not recommend a particular place to look for an instrument, good sources of instruments include your local music shops, the want-ads section of your newspaper, and national music companies that are willing to ship instruments to you. Both local and national music stores will generally try very hard to sell you an instrument that you will be happy with, so that you will return to them for music, mutes, repairs, and other extras. Let the salesperson know you need a student-quality instrument, and of course let them know if a small-size instrument is needed.
Note: Student-quality instruments are usually reasonably priced, (although some instruments are simply more expensive to make than others), and this is really all a beginner needs. Even if your child does end up having great interest and ability, it will probably be a few years before she needs a higher-quality instrument. And by then, she will have very definite ideas about what kind of instrument she wants, too.
Mention any other requirements your teacher has. Check warranties and return policies carefully. Ask if there is any way for you to take the instrument to be okayed by your child's teacher before final purchase, particularly if you are buying a used instrument through a want ad. If they can, ask the salesperson or previous owner to play it for you. Consider whether renting an instrument for a few months would make sense. This can be a good way to put off purchasing the instrument until you are certain of your child's interest, and your child can then try playing on an instrument before you buy it.
Note:Buying instruments at stores that do not specialize in music can be a mistake. Some of these instruments are of such poor materials and workmanship that it is very difficult to keep them in working order; your repair bills may end up costing more than a decent instrument would have cost.
Once you have purchased the instrument, make sure you follow the care instructions that come with it, or find out from the teacher how to care properly for it. A musical instrument, like a car, will be a source of constant frustration and repair bills if it is not kept in good shape.
What You Should Do Once Lessons Have Begun
Your child's teacher should make clear things like how often and how long your child should practice as well as practical things like payment schedules and no-show policies. If not, ask! (You may find some useful suggestions in A Guide to Great Home Music Practice.)
If you are considering Suzuki lessons, be aware that you will be expected to actively participate in your child's daily practices. No musical knowledge is required on your part, just time. Most other methods only require you to make sure that your child does practice. (You are the best judge of how to do this; whether incentives, reminders, or regular schedules are the way to go varies from one child to the next.) Remember that keeping to the teacher's suggested practice schedule is very important. Nobody can learn to play an instrument if they play only once or twice a week; if this is what is happening, there is not much the teacher will be able to do to help your child improve.
You don't need to complement every sound that comes from your child's instrument, but do try to be encouraging, especially when you do hear something you like. It is the teacher's job, not yours, to listen critically.
Don't be afraid to discuss potential problems with the teacher, especially if your child can't or won't. Most children will have some resistance to practicing and some "performance anxiety" about lessons. But it is not normal for practice time to be miserable or for your child to be terrified of the teacher; if this is the case, insist on some changes or find a different teacher or even a different instrument. Music lessons can and should be an introduction to a lifelong enjoyment of music.
Basic music theory and other materials useful to beginner and amateur musicians are available for free at Connexions: http://cnx.rice.edu
"This work is Copyright 2005 Catherine Schmnidt-Jones and is licensed
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